About
A quieter home for creators who don’t fit the mainstream.
Tenderkind is a calmer, fairer subscription home for trans, sissy, femboy and crossdressing creators — built by people from the community, with privacy by default and split rules that treat every side honestly.
Our mission
Tenderkind exists because the spaces that should feel safest for trans, sissy, femboy and crossdressing creators are usually either a corner of a generalist platform that wasn’t built for them, or a niche site that forgot to be respectful somewhere along the way. We’re building the third option: a subscription community where the rules, the tools, and the tone are designed around the people who actually live here — not borrowed from a larger, noisier network.
We treat every creator as a long-term relationship, not a content slot. That means fairer revenue splits, calmer moderation, and a product that listens before it ships.
Who we serve
Tenderkind is built for, and by, creators in the gender-nonconforming and feminization communities — and the audiences who love their work. The four audiences we lead with:
- Trans creators — writers, performers, artists, educators, and streamers who deserve a subscription home that doesn’t re-litigate their identity in every comment section.
- Sissy creators — the long history of feminization and forced-feminine work gets taken seriously here, with rules that distinguish play from pressure and protect both sides of the dynamic.
- Femboy creators — a community that has been flattened, mocked, and mis-tagged on the mainstream web gets a venue that names the work correctly and pays it fairly.
- Crossdressing creators — from everyday expression to performance, with tools for galleries, lookbooks, audio diaries, and long-form writing that don’t force a single format.
What makes us different
Three commitments set us apart from the mainstream adult platforms and the rest of the niche.
Calmer by design
No algorithmic chase, no engagement-bait leaderboards, no spam fire-hoses. A tasteful timeline, generous notification controls, and a moderation team that talks to creators in full sentences — not in suspensions.
Fairer economics
A split that puts creators ahead of the platform from the first paid subscriber, tips with minimal platform fees, and no surprise “discovery” deductions. If we ever change the math, we publish the change before it takes effect.
Privacy by default
Real-name, address, and payment data are siloed from public profiles. DMs are end-to-end encrypted between verified members. We collect the minimum we need to run the product — and we publish what we collect, in plain language.
How we got here
Tenderkind started as a small Discord circle and a shared frustration: the founders had each been kicked off, de-monetized, or quietly down-ranked by platforms that didn’t understand what they were making. We built the version of the site we wished we’d had — slower, kinder, more honest about money. Tenderkind is still small on purpose, and we plan to keep it that way long enough to earn the right to grow.
Press, partnership, and policy questions go to tenderkind@polsia.app. Creator support is tenderkind@polsia.app too — a real person reads it.